As I child The Countessa always felt there was something different about me compared with others of my age. I was, of course, too young to recognise what it was, but as I grew up, I only ever felt comfortable when I was feeling assertive. This manifested itself as a sort of aloofness which often got me into trouble both with my peers and authority. I especially felt a type of rush when I was able to turn this assertiveness to my advantage with the opposite sex. 

During puberty, I quickly realised that not only had my assertiveness progressed to dominance, it fulfilled me and at the same time attracted the type of male that I became increasingly curious about. It became obvious that I could turn this to my advantage and be able to be the centre of attention without even trying. It was initially psychological, but I learned that the physical added a new dimension and I craved the control sexually. Careful research let me to the world of D/s and BDSM. 

Adored and worshipped

I’m happiest being adored and worshipped. However true happiness can only be achieved when my sub feels that to do my bidding is all they want in the world at that moment and knowing that after our session, they cannot wait to return and progress down our joint path of debauchery. I love the thought that I’m foremost in their mind.

Schoolmistress scenario

One of the roles which I, Manchester Mistress, The Countessa play is “school mistress” . I love to project a
vision of authority with grace and style, smartly dressed in pencil skirt, blouse and heels with an hourglass figure. Maybe a glimpse of stocking top to set the heart racing. The fantasy that ‘Miss’ could easily teach them not only sexual etiquette, but the error of their ways should they misbehave. Punishment is never far away and how I choose to administer it depends upon the misdemeanour and of course, my mood.
 

Manchester Mistress, The Countessa loves her BDSM outfits

The outfits that I like are many and varied. All make me feel good.
Invariably they are latex coupled with tight corsets and nylons underpinned with heels, whether they be shoes or boots. Donning such apparel immediately gives me a feeling of superiority and puts me in the zone, so to speak. If I had to choose one outfit, it would be my black and red full-length rubber dress, shined to the max. It clings in all the right places, accentuating my curves.

Dominant yet caring

  I’m different to other Manchester Mistresses because I’m an English Latino with attitude and the looks to match. I am dominant yet caring . I always make my sub feel safe and welcome and my focus is on them. Their gift of submission is something I cherish and helps me to deliver a great session, making me feel euphoric and in total control. This is exactly how it should be.
 
However I need to tell you that there are certain things that are not acceptable. Among these are:
 
Topping from the bottom
Asking personal questions
Touching Mistress without permission

I WILL punish you

Disobedient slaves do need to be punished, but that depends upon the slave and the scenario. I like to associate  punishment with those desires which truly float their boat. It may be impact play delivered by hand over the knee or something much more severe, by cane, tawse, paddle or whip. I may choose to combine this with restraint, CBT or breath play. It’s a varied world out there, and that world will always be celebrated, explored, and boundaries pushed.
 
First impressions are important. When a slave visits me for the first time they can expect a beautiful, warm and friendly Mistress with a great personality. One who listens, respects and will never take them for granted.

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