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Los Angeles switch, Miss Ann Interview

Not all featured mistresses on the mistress elite directory are fundamentally hard-core mistresses. Los Angeles-based Miss Ann is a professional switch.

We asked Miss Ann:  why did you decide to stick to being a “switch” rather than a full mistress?

From sublime submissive to mischievous Mistress

My life is a flowing river. Opportunities show up along the journey and I either welcome them or I choose not to. I have consciously explored my submissive side, mastering my submission for over 25 years. I love serving. My thing is serving. About twelve years ago, a friend had a conversation with me in which he made it clear he desperately wanted me to top him. He kept asking. I decided as a service I would top him.

For the last nine years, I have continued to explore Service Topping. I love it. I deeply enjoy giving a menu; they pick the play they want to explore and we do that. It is all about service. From the outside, watching us play, your perception of what is going on is as different as mine. Training a Spirit Totem Pony vs. a BDSM Pony is personal.

Being a person who works with body energy, the flow of energy, and the connection between two bodies, it is the connection that is important to me. There are many possibilities on the rubric cube of options that can all be submissive or dominant. A submissive can be a sadist. It is an infinite combination. I might cream my panties in delight for the bits of pain acceptance you’re doing so well while serving. It turns me on to see you obey and serve with excellence. I also beg to cum while being flogged. I love all the buffet dishes, and I am not denying myself any of their pleasures. Life is short. Live Magnificently.

Respect, honesty, and openness are the key

We next wanted to find out what Miss Ann‘s thoughts are regarding the negatives of being a professional Switch.

I know the skills I know. I explore and learn new skills as I journey. There are no wrong paths, only new possibilities.

As a professional, I have to talk to clients to find out how much they are willing to pay. Respect, honesty, and openness are important. If you cannot communicate with these foundation blocks (speak on the phone or write) with these qualities, it is a red flag that you will not play with these qualities. It is my job to select appropriate clients for me.

Most importantly, the service provider/client relationship is one I know. I understand it. It works for me. It brings me joy and satisfaction, and I find it rewarding for my spirit.

 It must be wonderful to be able to switch from submissive to dominant and back again. What would this look like in a session? we asked.

I have done half and half sessions. They last longer in time because you play and then transition. A favourite is the cosplay scene. Batman has captured me and needs to know where the Joker is or what his next move is because we have partnered up. Play, play, play, and then I manoeuvre out of my bonds and capture Batman, and the real fun begins as I am teasing and torturing him.

Is the etiquette different when requesting to spend time with a professional switch rather than requesting a session with the Mistress?

My advice would be relevant to any professional service provider you visit: Always be punctual and respectful. Communicate any physical restrictions (your knee hurts, your back hurts, etc.) Understand your own limitations as well as your own strengths. That should be a mutual given. Set boundaries and keep them. Communicate and negotiate your play before you start. Do what works for you, not what works for someone else.

Where does Miss Ann hold sessions?

I play at Mid-City Studios. It is a good-sized room, big enough for me to train ponies in. It has lots of full-size mirrors. I always like to watch everything going on, including the person’s face while I play. There are hanging chains to hook a person up to and play all around that person. There is a queen-size bed, chairs, and lots and lots of gear, toys, and games to explore with.


How would you describe the BDSM scene in Los Angeles?

BDSM is a shorthand for play that you see and use every day. It isn’t anything to be scared of or afraid of. We are simply going to label it correctly and enjoy it. Someone offers you a job to do, tells you how to do it, gives you time to do it, and you accept it or don’t. If you accept it, there are rewards or punishments. This happens in real life every day. In fact, most folks take it for granted and have forgotten to rejoice and celebrate their lives.

For me, some of the most rewarding games simply up the stakes of reward or punishment based on your performance. You remember how to have your actions and behaviour make a difference because it matters more in that hour or a couple of hours you are playing erotic BDSM games.

In Los Angeles, you will find a full spectrum of players. If you have a fetish or kink that is important to you, find someone who enjoys it too.

We then went on to ask about submissive Miss Ann’s plans were in the near future.

I will be travelling this fall.

Los Angeles, September 18–October 9, and Washington, DC, October 10–15
From October 19 to October 21, Philadelphia,
In Los Angeles, from October 24 to November 2nd,
From November 4 to November 6, Rhode Island Comic Con
From November 7 to November 12, Boston ‘
From November 13 to November 18, Manhattan is
In Los Angeles on November 21,

I just received some excellent gifts of latex outfits and bondage dresses that I will be using in photo shoots this month. I am excited to share these photos soon.
 
For Los Angeles, submissive miss Ann. Who would be your ideal client.

over 21 years old. Respectful Short, concise descriptions of the fetishes, kinks, playstyles, and desires you want to investigate. communicates well. Punctual Clean up. Courtesy and charm open many doors. knows that relationships, even business relationships, are built over time. They use “hello,” “greetings,” and full sentences to introduce themselves, not just “here.”

The Evolution of BDSM.

The evolution of BDSM

We can speculate that the evolution of BDSM started when humans first understood the link between pleasure and pain we wanted to delve a little more into its origins. And discover a comprehensive understanding of where our kinky fascination began.

BDSM, the abbreviation

The abbreviation BDSM, which stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism, is just recently gaining popularity. We hear about it from a close friend, we read about it online. We see it in famous movies. However, what may appear novel to you is actually an age-old component of sex.

The history of BDSM is extensive and etched in time, and while BDSM has evolved and some stigmas surrounding it have ebbed and flowed, studying its history is a terrific approach to bring yourself closer to your sexuality if you practise or desire to practise BDSM.

When and where did the evolution of BDSM history begin?

Ancient Mesopotamia was one of the first known advanced human civilizations, and it is from there that we have our first accounts of BDSM. If you’re wondering where Ancient Mesopotamia was, it was in the Middle East near Iraq, according to current maps.

These documents date back to around 3100 BC. So long ago, in fact, that here is when and where writing was invented, allowing people to preserve portions of our past using the written word for the first time without the need of pictures.

Because sex was such an important aspect of ancient civilization, some of the first recorded stories frequently contain sex.

These stories frequently retained BDSM elements, demonstrating the first indications that bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism were occurring approximately 12,000 years ago.

The First BDSM Records

 

The first BDSM stories and records of BDSM always involved gods and goddesses

 

The story of Inanna is one of the most famous. Inanna, also known as Ishtar, is the goddess of passion and fertility, the two major reasons we have sex: to satisfy a need and to procreate.

Inanna’s legends depict her whipping her subjects into a pure and wild sexual frenzy.
Their cries of pleasure followed their groans of agony, introducing the concept of obtaining sexual ecstasy through the act of feeling harm.

Inanna was the feminist of all feminists because she worshipped her own vagina. Other myths talk of her making males kneel down to her in servitude, frequently forcing them to don women’s garb or placing them in a euphoric state of both agony and delight.

Although Mesopotamia would finally collapse, the seeds of BDSM remained, and this erotic fire continued to spread over the world.

BDSM in Classical Greece and Rome

One of the next sites having a BDSM history is Ancient Greece. It was referred to as ‘flagellation,’ a phrase that is still in use today and is described by the dictionary as “flogging or beating, either as a religious punishment or for sexual fulfilment.”

Flagellation was a frequent ceremonial practice in Ancient Greece.
So, although we may credit Ancient Greece for the origins of science and philosophy, we can also thank it for continuing to cater to and evolve the BDSM lifestyle.

Some cults, for example, would employ this flogging and beating as a right of passage into their cult, whipping the young males while worshipping the goddess Artemis Orthia.

In Greece, there was even a Tomb of Whipping, which was painted with depictions of two guys whipping a lady and where individuals would go to be flogged for pleasure.

In Italy, the ideals behind sex and BDSM were also extremely similar.

Sex was in, and if you go deep enough into history, you’ll discover that BDSM has always existed.
Romans held sex to comparable standards as those of Ancient Greece, as orgies occurred on a regular basis, and they frequently practised types of BDSM, their gods, and works of literature leading to sexual extremes.

There was a Tomb of Flogging devoted to Dionysus, a deity associated with debauchery and extreme indulgence in sexual pleasures, where individuals who were beaten and dominated may find sexual pleasure in their misery.

In the earlier days, BDSM was taken extremely seriously, and it went beyond merely a “kind of sex.”
BDSM was sacrosanct, and many forms of it (particularly whipping) were considered as ceremonial and related with their gods and goddesses, demonstrating the reverence that should be kept surrounding this act to this day.

BDSM in the United States

Now that Christopher Columbus has decided to sail to the Americas, he has adopted the beliefs and values of BDSM.

However, from its inception to the present, BDSM (and sex in general) has had to through some difficult moments.
Europe was all about sex, generating some of the best sexual works ever created, but this didn’t seem to translate over the Atlantic.

As the belief that falling for your wants will earn you a place in hell spread, people felt sex should be a male-dominated act exclusively performed for procreation and religious objectives.
Women were repressed, men were paradoxically sexual, and BDSM has shied away from sex stigmas grew in power and support.

It was not until the late 2,000s that BDSM became a household phrase. People began to share their enthusiasm for BDSM, which could be found in literature or movies.

So, finally, hundreds of years later, sex is being accepted, and BDSM culture may progress as it should. Within this sort of sex, there is a complete lifestyle, and the community is powerful and supportive.

Understanding the history of BDSM allows you to recognise that sex is and will always be a driving force in mankind, and you should utilise this history to understand and respect your own ideas on sex.

Because just when you thought being whipped for fun seemed strange, you discover that if you lived in Greece, you could easily go up to the Tomb of Flogging for all your whipping delights, much like a BDSM drive-thru.

So, if you want to explore any component of BDSM, realise that it is also an integral aspect of humanity and that doing so will teach you things about yourself and the world that would otherwise be unachievable.
So here’s to ensure that the history of BDSM continues to be positive after this moment!

Elite sex toys have a great selection of traditional and quite vicious BDSM whips and floggers.

London Mistress BDSM FPV Drone flying in abandoned factory

BDSM FPV Drone with goggles

Flying BDSM FPV Drone. A slightly different way to experience your FPV drone.

FPV refers to a perspective from the first person. This means that first-person-view (FPV) drone pilots see the same view that the drone does. Traditional drones are different since the pilot controls the craft from the ground. Instead of the pilot’s point of view, a camera on the drone’s undercarriage allows for a first-person view, allowing the pilot to control the drone from inside the aircraft.

BDSM FPV Drone

BDSM FPV Drone


Think at it as though you were looking at it from a drone.

However, from almost any angle, FPV drones and traditional drones appear to be visually identical.
Even the more conventional drones of today typically come equipped with cameras or, if not, can be modified to accommodate first-person view flight.
To switch back to a more conventional view, the FPV can also have the camera turned off.

An abandoned Sheffield factory and a professional mistress

This summer, a small team of professionals travelled out to Sheffield. We met up with professional drone flyers, photographers, and, of course, the model for the day, Madame Python (professional BDSM dominatrix).

 

BDSM FPV Drone

BDSM FPV Drone

The idea for the day was to shoot sexy photos and video footage. And we wanted something different, so using an abandoned factory, which I have to say, is incredibly difficult to find and enter, was the ideal location. Not only do a few enthusiasts from the abandoned building scene know about this location. It is incredibly difficult to find and enter.

The factory is in the industrial part of Sheffield. From the equipment that is still there, it looks like it shut down in the late 1970s or early 1980s.

The building itself is derelict and, in flight, falling apart. Some of the floors and rooms which we were lucky enough to access were very dangerous indeed, with floorboards missing.

Of course, this did not stop us, and we forged on with the goal of getting our desired images and videos.

We wanted this photo shoot and video to be pretty hot. So, in preparation for our BDSM FPV drone flying video, Madame Python picked some risque outfits with sexy underwear. and some rather raunchy BDSM outfits.

Focus on BDSM FPV drone flying.

BDSM FPV Drone

BDSM FPV Drone

Most of the time, John’s brother would fly his drone around old, abandoned buildings. But he flies very differently than we did on the day of the shoot. The drone will fly in and out of windows, around buildings, and flip over and quickly zoom around long-forgotten properties.

Using the FPV drone on this occasion. We had to keep in mind the dangers of getting too close to our model. These drones are very responsive and are controlled by a person on the ground. This means that the drone will do what you tell it to do every time you touch the controls.

Remember that the drone’s blades are moving quickly and could hurt you a lot if they touched someone.

A live virtual sexy encounter with an FPV drone and London dominatrix

Of course, with this type of FPV drone, of course, the pilot wears a pair of goggles that make him feel like he is right there.

The fact that John’s brother was flying around Madame Python and looking at her almost-naked body really turned both Madame Python and John’s brother on.

Madame Python said it was fun to twist and move her body so the FPV drone flyer could see every part of it.

We all had an amazing time and captured some great BDSM FPV drone flying footage as well as some awesome photos.