An insight to Mistress Tilly’s BDSM life

Stockport Mistress Tilly sue

Stockport Mistress Tilly Sue on her BDSM dominatrix career

As I look back on my career as a professional dominatrix. I reflect on the many memories from my past which I now recognise as BDSM-related. But, which at the time I had no idea what that [BDSM] was or that it even existed.

The earliest memory dates back to when I was in junior school, I “adopted”. One of my male classmates and walked him to his bus stop every afternoon after school. I would act like his mother. Insisting he held my hand and would spank his bottom when I considered he had stepped out of line.  (Which has been often!!)

Both my ex-husbands labelled me a “bossy bitch”. But, I actually discovered the BDSM scene after my second marriage broke down. I worked as an escort to pay the bills. Then, one day a client turned up with a hair brush and asked me to spank him with it. I had so much fun.

I decided I needed more spanking in my life! From there I discovered the online community. It wasn’t long before I was venturing into real community events.

Own chambers

Since then things have progressed somewhat. I now work as an independent mistress. I have my own purpose-built chambers in Stockport. Just on the outskirts of Manchester. I do not work from any other chambers.  I like to have all my own equipment to hand.

My chambers are large and well-equipped to cover most fetishes. I have a spacious dungeon area. A medical room with an anesthetic machine. This is for delivering nitrous gas sessions. Additionally, I have a domestic service area and a TV/TG dressing room. Also, I have plans to build an isolation room in the near future.

Fantastic equipment

All my equipment is carefully chosen. Firstly, it does to do what I want it to do. Secondly, every  piece is my favorite for what it was designed to do. Although I do secretly like to stroke my spanking bench as I walk past it!

When I’m in a session, Usually I’m totally absorbed in what I am doing and producing an enjoyable experience for both myself and my client. I am always aware that although I am in control and enjoying myself, The client has paid over his hard-earned cash and deserves some enjoyment too.

No comparison

I don’t compare myself to other mistresses. I am who I am. Furthermore, I like what I like and I do what I do my way.

I have many physical means of controlling a submissive, but for me the most satisfying means are mental control. I like to get into a submissive’s mind. There is nothing quite so thrilling as someone giving up their control to me because they want to.

A favorite activity?

I couldn’t pick out one activity as a favorite. CP appeals to my sadistic nature. I love caning, paddling and flogging. Unequivocally,  I love leaving my marks on skin. Breath control is another of my loves. To me this is the ultimate control. The choice of life or death!! Medical play, humiliation, feminisation, mummification, the list is endless.

Safewords

I am often asked about safewords. I always give the option of a safeword during sessions. Whether the client feels the need to use it or not is up to them. I feel that with good communication before the session starts and honesty about hard and soft limits a client shouldn’t feel the need to use their safeword.

Stockport Mistress attire

When it comes to attire, I like to be comfortable with what I’m wearing as then I can give 100% concentration on what I am doing. I do have a penchant for wearing cardigans which doesn’t sound at all sexy does it? However, I like to think I pull it off with my own style and panache.

Punishment

Naughty slaves must be punished according to what they have done wrong. I am a firm Stockport Mistress. Absolutely, a believer in the punishment fitting the crime, but I think good communication can prevent a lot of naughtiness, unless of course they are brats by nature when naughtiness is part of their charm.

What annoys me intensely is time wasters and people who call me continuously to ask questions with no intention of ever booking an appointment. Then I simply refuse to take their calls.

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