Ever since I became self-aware, I have enjoyed combat games.

I always had an issue when people tried teaching me that girls should not adopt violent behaviour or do what guys do, because instinctively I was able to beat boys at everything. Basically, I was in conflict with the culture.

Mistress Hera, drawn to combat sports

I was always drawn to contact sports and martial arts which gave me the ability and confidence to deal with every violent situation that I had to face growing up. In time I developed a strong feminine body and an _almost feline instinct along with my growing self-confidence.

Freakishly strong

I am freakishly strong. It’s something that all my subs say about me. I don’t know why or how but I was always like that. For me it’s normal – probably genetic. It’s part of being a Goddess. When pinned under me with their hands above their heads my toys have one choice: to submit. Any other approach leads to the same result because overpowering them comes naturally to me.

I am strong, flexible, fast and confident. You will be trapped like a little mouse not knowing what’s going on. Once you become aware of how powerless you are and embrace your fate, I’ll start humiliating you with my butt toys, but of course, I’ll get your consent before we start.

Psychology

Everyone is different. BDSM is a form of art where everyone, Subs and Doms,  can connect in order to create art or a personal world where their ‘Secret Self’ can manifest itself and so fulfill their needs and desires. Subs are complex delicate creatures. Sometimes they don’t know what they want or need. Based on their behaviour I have to decide what is good or bad for them and how much I can push their limits while keeping them safe. Understanding the mechanism through which pain turns into pleasure is vital to determine the force I apply in my punishments and how to build up tension in my subs. Most sessions happen in our minds. What we express through our bodies is just a projection of our internal world. I love to get inside the mind of a sub and contort his projected wishes into something that I want.

Overpowering

My favourite types of session are usually ‘overpowering’ sessions. The ones that start with wrestling but include bondage, ballbusting, torture, pegging and breath control. The look in my new sub’s eyes when being defeated for the first time is priceless. A mixture of lust, fear, excitement and confusion; I empower myself with the energy that comes from my scared little toys.

Kidnaps are also exciting for me because of the emotional power that can be expressed over a longer session. 

I play with couples and girls but I prefer males with high pain tolerance – I love to bring them to tears.

Mistress Hera – Good Taste

I like diversity in my life, so financial support is the best way of showing appreciation. We all have fetishes; I have one for money. It’s my pathway to safety, freedom and pleasure. I like travelling and discovering new places; placing myself in diverse situations and circumstances. Exploring makes me feel alive. Not having to consider the cost of my adventures and having financial freedom makes me able to reach new creative peaks so money provides me with a safety net. I only do the things I like and never feel that I have to sacrifice myself for it. Supporting my adventures is the most appreciated gift one could give me.  Besides this, if you would like to show appreciation you can still contribute with toys, outfits and accessories. Like any other woman, of course I consider shopping as a form of therapy. I love unique personalized pieces but also appreciate a classic brand like Hermès, Prada, Chanel, McQueen, etc. . 

Travelling with style is better than travelling economy but the destination and the experience prioritises everything.

The perfect body

My empowerment comes from inside  me so the way I dress depends on my mood and the scenario I choose based on the fantasy we experience together. Because of my body structure it is very difficult for gifts or stuff bought via online shopping to be a good fit. I am inbetween sizes with everything. My bra size is 34D or 32DD; shoe size 6.5 or sometimes 6 or 7.  I have very thin ankles and most boots are large or don’t fit well, even the ones with shoelaces. My vital statistics (in metric) at the moment are 94cm – 58cm – 88cm; I weigh 55 kg and am 175cm tall. In the winter I gain up to 5 kg. If you convert this into inches you will understand how difficult it is for me to find anything that fits. I love latex, PVC vegan leather but also silk and sexy underwear.

I believe that everyone is unique but I have many different personalities, all unique so things can be overwhelming for others but never boring for me. Domination wrestling is my favourite type of session. I love my ability to overpower and the energy surge I feel when I look down on my sub and see him confused, lost and struggling.

Trying new things

In most BDSM scenes, choosing to give up power is a pre-settled agreement from the beginning. In BDSM wrestling you get to fight for your rights to have power over your opponent. My sessions are personalised; never the same. All my sessions are  a form of art.  In the dungeon I love the subs that can tolerate a lot of pain. Ballbusting is one of my favourite activities. Having a man tied with his hands and feet spreadeagled, open to my abuse, is therapy for me. After this type of session I feel energized. Taking my victim’s money while I do all these terrible abusive things to him trebles the fun and pleasure that I get out of it. I love trying new things and extreme sessions just to keep pushing my own hard limits, so I like to welcome all types of sessions – I exclude sex and hardsports – but I can peg the s*** out of you and leave you on the cold floor crying like a sissy. So arrange a booking with me. It will be dramatic fun. I promise!

How to make Mistress Hera happy

It’s very easy for a sub to make me happy: tip me above the fee and do not try to negotiate the price down. Respect the quality and dedication I put into my sessions.  Arrive at the appointment with an open mind and a clean body and always make sure that I have everything that I need in order to maintain my lifestyle. When I feel that I get your best, you will get to experience my best for you, based on your generosity. I consider that every sub has a different “best potential” and all intentions count.

What’s new this year?

This year I am opening a wrestling studio/Dungeon in Ibiza and will be moving there by August. I need all the help and support I can get in opening this new business. I am looking forward to enthusiastic FinDom subs to help me grow even stronger. 

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