For me, BDSM means creating a safe place for people to explore how closely related pleasure and pain really are! The foundations of this in my view are SSC,(safe, sane, consensual) meaning a level of trust can be established. From that point on limits can be explored and tested.

Understanding Mistress Catriona LeBeau

I feel happy when my boys understand the word gratitude. My most memorable boys have been the ones who are thoughtful and considerate outside of a session, that don’t infringe on my personal time and who make it their mission to overcompensate for the men that do.

Boys that come to me will find that I am the nicest bitch they could ever meet. I am respectful and caring, behind that steely facade.

A love of latex

I love my latex outfits. They are my favourites. Because it feels like I am cladding myself in Power! It’s like another layer of skin, allowing me to be someone else almost. These outfits cause me to be the harshest kind of Domme. For sensual tie and tease, or other softer levels of BDSM I tend to wear lingerie, or soft clothing. So what I wear really does reflect the kind of mood I am in.

Unique Brighton Mistress

Mistress Catriona LeBeau is different to other Mistresses because I adhere to the highest standards. I only see people that interest me, that behave respectfully, that exceed the basic standards. I am charging high prices, because I deliver something truly mind blowing. Every aspect of an experience with me is high end.  I also only see 1 person a day, so that 1 person gets all my energy and it is a day dedicated to their fantasy, however long or short the session.

The right attitude for Mistress Catriona LeBeau

Sometimes someone arrives with the right attitude, open minded, ready to try new things, trusting me to take him to where he needs to go, and not fighting the feelings as he sinks deeper and deeper as the session progresses. I have had new play partners experience subspace on their first visit. That is rare, but it was amazing because they came along, ready! I can honestly say that that was a great session.

My Mistress has plans

I had many plans for this year, but it is turning out to be a year like no other (for all the wrong reasons) all my plans have changed. I am still hoping to attend and win at the UK Fetish awards in London towards the end of the year. The FemDom ball is also on my calendar. But no trips to Europe this year. I will be very keen to travel next year, so if anyone wants to sponsor a trip to their city, let me know asap.

Not acceptable for Mistress Catriona LeBeau

You should know that certain things are not acceptable. One of these is expecting my time for free. This is one echoed by my Domme community. We have to cut loose subs who we have been building a good working relationship with, who we have invested significant amounts of time in. Because they start to believe they are special. That they can chat to us, see us outside of sessions for free. This is a fatal mistake. If you have become important to us, we want you to stay that way. We watch the greed of men ruin these perfect D/S dynamics time and again. Because they forget we are service providers, and we are so good at what we do, we have made them feel cherished and cared for within a paid arrangement. That’s how good it can be. Why they ruin it by wanting more than we can give I will never know.

Rules are there to be followed

I lay down certain rules for my boys. I expect them to be followed. Sometimes they are disobedient. If it is a mistake in a session, something slight or trivial then a short sharp shock will resolve that situation. If it is outside the session or bigger than a small oversight, then I will punish with silence. Behaving badly to gain extra punishment is manipulative and I won’t stand for it. If you are rude, disrespectful or disloyal you will be ignored, whether that is in person or online. You will not goad me into sending you aggressive, humiliation messages. 

You can’t rush trust

So much rests on the initial visit. You need to know that however experienced you may be, day 1 with me will be about communication. I would never gag a sub on their first visit, because I need them to be able to tell me what is too much, not enough. I need to know how things feel. You can’t rush trust. But once that is established you can do some seriously amazing things to a man’s body.  I will always try to incorporate things you have listed as preferences, but you must remember you are here to entertain me with your pain. The majority of what we do will be things I enjoy. 

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