Is BDSM dangerous?

BDSM has been around since the dawn of time. Additionally, it has been practised by every civilisation on the planet. Whilst some believe we can categorise or pigeonhole the act of ”BDSM” it seems that BDSM itself covers all manner of sins.

There is no governing body to determined what is under the BDSM umbrella. Simply, we can say BDSM is an erotic activity or relationship which focuses on power exchange encompassing fantasy, fetishes, bondage and role-playing.

BDSM Studies

Studies have been made of individuals who practice BDSM. Also, they determined them to be healthier and less neurotic than those with a tame sex life. In the past, BDSM has been associated with a particular form of psychopathology. This is not the case. Practitioners are generally psychologically healthier than the rest of the population.

I’ve spent time with many mistresses and have had the opportunity to ask the intriguing question: “Why?”

Dangerous fetishes. What’s the attraction?

In some cases it seems straightforward. As to, why an individual develops a particular fetish. Having a fetish about breasts or buttocks is normal. This falls into the category of sexual desire. Well, one may think. Additionally, having a particular fetish about hands or feet seems to fall into the category of “normal” nowadays.

How can we explain to another individual why we enjoy being whipped, restrained and gagged? Again this might be possible to explain to an open-minded person.

What happens when we have a more unusual desire? For example scat. The eating of faecal matter.

Act out your fantacy

In some cases people with fetishes absolutely need to act out a fantasy. Firstly, this could involve the fetish. Secondly, it could be simply the mental health of the individual can be affected dramatically.

People in high-powered Jobs who constantly make major decisions all day and every day, have to find a balance in their own mind. This is so their sanity can be preserved.

This is where fetishes often surface.

The A-Z of fetishes goes on for ever and ever and I’m sure there are plenty of individual fetishes and fantasies which we haven’t heard of or can’t even imagine.

BDSM is dangerous. The fatal fetish

How can we deal with an individual who has an extreme fetish which could prove physically damaging or even fatal to himself or others?

A choking fetish is a little intense for some. Some say it is purely about the sensation. When we cut off the oxygen supply to the brain, it heightens sensations and can give one an amazing orgasm. However, there have been many documented cases of asphyxiation that have been fatal.

Auto-erotic Asphyxiation is when an individual get sexual pleasure from choking himself or herself.

Dead in a hotel

You may remember David Carradine. The American actor who became famous for his role in the 1970s television series Kung Fu. David Carradine was found dead in a Hotel room in Bangkok. This was while filming a movie in Thailand. He was naked with a rope around his neck.

Other fatalities of famous people caused by Auto-Erotic Asphyxiation.

Albert Dekker, Famous actor and politician.
Michael Hutchence, Australian musician and leader of INXS.
Stephen Milligan, a British Conservative politician.
Kevin Gilbert, musician who worked with Madonna, Michael Jackson and Eddie money.

This is one of many potentially fatal fetishes. People should seriously think twice about before even contemplating. From a practitioner’s point of view (dominatrix or mistress) it goes without saying: that any of the potentially fatal fetishes should not be entertained in any way. The individual who has this particular fetish would be well advised to seek professional help. It’s imperative, he or she would not find themselves putting themselves or others at risk.

A conclusion. Fetish away!

On a whole, the practice of BDSM fantasies is not dangerous. Of course, providing you are in a safe environment with a trustworthy person. Ideally this should be someone who has had experience of your particular fetish.

Advice to slaves who choose a Mistress with whom they have not had sessions previously:

I would advise you to do your research. Make sure that the professional you would like to see is well versed in, or has had similar experiences of your particular fetish. You can do this by checking the reviews on mistress directories and the website of the mistress in question.

The best way is to contact the Mistress directly. Pick up the phone and make a call or if the number’s not available, quite simply send her an email.

Safe BDSM-ing!

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