The most popular BDSM online fetishes

The past 18 months have been rough on all of us. But for some, in a good way. Hailed as the year of porn, 2020 saw such a huge spike in online porn that several well-known sites simply crashed from all the traffic. There is not much to do when you are stuck in a room alone but explore your deepest, darkest desires.

What about online porn?

Not only was online porn becoming a normative household staple, one of the most taboo disciplines was also getting its day in the sun – BDSM. To most, this may sound like a scary word. They imagine flashing whips, giant chains, ball gags, and being hung upside down from a chandelier. Sure, that is part of it. But when online, it mostly boils down to one thing, the basis for all things BDSM – Power.

When the world around you is in chaos and there is nothing you can control, most people split into two categories: The control freak, and the submissive that feels a sense of peace when following orders. This is where BDSM fetishes come into play.

The most popular fetishes online

For those who love being in charge, the most searched for BDSM online fetishes are Domination, Humiliation, Discipline, Bondage, Edging, and Water Sports. You, as a member on a live cam site, can give orders and instructions to your performer of choice, for a cost that is relatively low compared to real-life mistresses.

Let us get to know the lesser-known disciplines.

Edging, for example, is also called orgasm denial. You can bring your performer to the edge of ecstasy, again and again, denying that sweet release. But the real magic happens when you finally allow the model to finish.

Then there is Water Sports, otherwise known as squirting on oneself or others. Many of the live cam sites offer couples and groups, so there are plenty of wet parties going on, along with other bodily fluids being shot around like fizzy champagne.

Jerk off instructions? yes please!

Yet, with the abundance of control play, the far more commonly practised BDSM online shows are about the opposite of taking control. It is about being controlled. Categories include Training of different kinds, such as Cum Eating Instructions, Jerk Off Instructions, Anal Training, Small Penis Humiliation, Findom, Femdom (find more on “Best Live Cam Sites” website) – And I will stop there as the list is, quite literally, never-ending.

Let us explore.

Training is a real favourite across computer and mobile screens because it is usually very specific to particular fetishes. The performer “teaches” her student (You!) how to do things right. After all, true live cam pros are some of the best instructors, and they are naked too, so that’s a plus.

Findom vs Femdom

Findom and Femdom are completely different. The first is all about the Benjamins. Money. What gives the user the most pleasure is a stunning bossy model who wants to take everything they own, get gifts, and just relish in the cash. Femdom refers to a dominant who controls a slave and knows how to both control and also reward her loyal subject.

As a mistress and submissive myself, I find the total loss of control, along with complete power, exhilarating. Even if the client is a thousand of miles away, the basic instinct of power exchange is as thrilling, no matter how many times it is performed. To those who are novices and have yet to pop their BDSM cherry, I recommend going slow and using BDSM live cams listed here rather than watching videos on sites like Pornhub (Which I love).

Find your model

First, find a model of whichever sex you prefer and start up a discussion. Be real, explain your newfound curiosity, and ask them what they do during their performances.

These are seasoned sex artists, they know how to deal with those practising for years, and those in need of some training and assistance to find their kink. The main reason for this gentle tete-a-tete is figuring out the million-dollar question – Are you a dominant, or a submissive? Once you find that out, the road to gratification, sexual pleasure and explosive orgasms is just a click away.

Besides The most popular BDSM online fetishes blog which, you can find on our blog at Mistress Elite. You can also find some beautiful, professional Elite Mistress on our American dominatrix website Mistress Elite USA.

Do you need BDSM sex toys? Of course, you do! Visit our exclusive collection is for professional BDSM mistresses and submissive’s Elite BDSM Sex Toys

Would you like to hire an Escort? If you’re in London or are interested in Escorts in London. Visit Beautiful girls at our London escort agency. You can also see a wider range of independent escorts and read exotic and erotic blogs in our London escort directory.