Mistress Gia, Sheffield BDSM dominatrix. Exclusive interview with a South Yorkshire BDSM mistress.
I first got interested in BDSM because I’m a control freak. I love feeling power over men. It turns me on. I think it comes from my childhood.
My dad was a big, tough man who threw his weight around. At the age of 16, I got my first black belt! hehe! I just loved that a tiny lady like me could physically dominate a big man.
What makes Sheffield Mistress Gia happiest?
But the thing that makes this Sheffield Mistress happiest currently is prolonged worship of all varieties. Sheffield Mistress Gia simply adores being worshipped.
Having said that you have to understand that I’m not nasty. I can’t abide screaming and shouting. If clients want that, they can go elsewhere. I believe that to scream and shout is to show that one has lost control.
No, I’m sweet and I giggle as they squirm in fear and pain. I’m a true sadist and take pleasure from my sessions.
It’s important to me that I look and feel good in a session. That’s why I love playing in Italian lamb’s leather as the feel is so soft and comfortable. It’s the most expensive, but the best, just like me really.
The wardrobe of a Sheffield Mistress
I have a double wardrobe full of leather, rubber and PVC outfits and will happily wear whatever is requested in advance but left to my own devices (which I usually am), you’ll generally find me in a leather pencil or mini skirt with a leather basque as I love to show off my best assets and, being a retired, undefeated Cage Fighter and Muay Thai fighter, my best assets are my legs.
Different type of Mistress
I feel I am different to other Mistresses. my beauty sets me apart. But also, I’m not some washed up, old hooker. Who, thinks they’ll turn their hand to BDSM.
I’ve been Pro Domme for 23 years and my expertise, playroom, toys and indeed. My large, detached, discreetly located house all show this. My large, en suite playroom is second to none.
I’ve heard stories of Mistresses seeing people in disused storage units. Additionally, with no bathroom facilities and one client bumping into the last on the way in. There’s none of that here.
Once their car is on my private forecourt, I’ll push the button to close the gates behind it and nobody will ever know that they were here.
A favourite session of Sheffield Mistress Gia
Sheffield Mistress Gia‘s favourite type of session is a nice, long one – extended and unrushed. This is, where there’s time to just explore things together. Additionally, push boundaries and lose yourself in the moment.
I never have a set plan of what will happen in a session, only a general idea. I like to wing it and if I’m feeling very mischievous, who knows where it might lead?
Double dominant
Currently I am available to session in a Double Domme setting with either my girlfriend or my sister or, if the client is feeling very brave; with my male friend for a spot of Forced Bi. That’s really good fun. As, I love to be in complete control of two grown men at the same time! hehe.
You should be aware of the things I don’t find acceptable. These are:
- Sending more than one text or email. They should pause and await my response.
- Contacting me outside of the appropriate hours (9am to 9pm).
- Saying no. I will do as I wish anyway so there’s simply no point.
- Seeing another Mistress after they’ve seen me. It’s simply not acceptable. I expect and indeed demand loyalty.
And if you disobey me – there will be no reward – ever. So doing any of the above won’t earn one of these punishments, but they are many and various:
- Ballbusting
- Caning
- Spanking
- Paddling
- Giving electric shock treatment
- Breath play (withholding their air supply)
Worst of all, if they are really annoying me, blocking them so that they may never so much as text me again. That always hurts subs.
The initial meeting with Sheffield Mistress Gia
On meeting a slave initially, I will answer my front door at the agreed time (as they will make certain that they are punctual) dressed in a high power, business suit (my vanilla friends believe that I’m an Accountant who works from home) and they’ll be taken to my playroom having been given instructions to follow. I’ll return a few moments later, having revealed what was under my business suit.
The first session is a ‘getting to know each other’ session. So, I’ll already have an idea of what they’re into. And, I’ll obviously enjoy pushing their boundaries and indeed stretching and increasing them.
If I’m enjoying the session very much and the sub is pleasing Sheffield Mistress Gia. It is usual that, I may well allow some body worship as I do really enjoy this. But, of course, I have to be in the right frame of mind for it.
Snug as a bug in a BDSM rug
After that, I’ll most likely secure them tightly in bondage and tease them. Right until they think they’ll lose their mind as edging is very satisfying and then we’ll see. Will I let them, won’t I? That all depends on the person. Also, the mood on the day. Additionally, how much they’ve pleased me etc. And finally, what frame of mind I’m in.
Afterwards, there’ll be plenty of time to shower and prepare themselves before leaving. I have a ‘no rush’ policy. We might even discuss a future session over a drink before they leave.
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