49 year old Female from west sussex, South East, UK
Welcome to the advert of Mistress Helen Ryder of West Sussex. I have my own special play room which is well equipped for domestic scenarios and in my FAQ’s on my website you will find a list of the activities that I enjoy.
I am situated approximately 1.5 miles from the A23 exit Burgess Hill in the south of England bordering East Sussex with Brighton and Hove to the East, Hampshire to the west and Surrey to the north. If coming by taxi I’m just 5 minutes from Burgess Hill train station, thirty five minutes from Gatwick Airport, and under one hour from London Victoria via fast train.
** Queening is with underwear on.
From a very early age I worked out how to have men hooked around my little finger and could see how much they enjoyed being teased! From early days tying boys up to lamp posts and laughing with my girlfriends, feeling that special power over them. I’m a very independent women who flirts and teases and can play the damsel in distress to have men fall at my feet but be assured I am playing! Seeing you helpless, quivering in anticipation and exerting my power over you is what makes me excited and makes me feel very mischievous
Newbies (fresh meat haha)
If you are new to this world then Mistress Helen Ryder will gently take your hand and lead you astray, having first spoken with you about where your interests lie, any concerns that you may have and what it is that you would like to experience from a session.
BDSM and seeing a professional Mistress is not all about receiving pain or being abused, it’s about having fun whilst exploring your kinks in a safe environment.
Hygiene is very important. All soft covers/towels are fresh for you and any wipe clean surfaces such as PVC is cleaned before and after use and all furniture/bench is wiped down with antibacterial spray. All insertable toys are always covered with a condom and also washed in antibacterial cleaner and hospital grade spray just to be ultra-sure of your wellbeing. Rest assured you are in safe hands.
I also expect you to have a high regard for your own personal hygiene as well, washing facilities are available for both before and after your session. Fresh minty breath and a freshly washed body with clean toe nails/finger nails is expected! You may bring your own wash bag or use the selection of products provided.
Mistress Helen Ryder has a variety of “Mistress attire” and you will see some of this in my gallery. I will consider clothing requests that fit within a session scene so for example if you want strapon play then I won’t be wearing a hobble skirt or something I can’t move in. I love wearing stockings, fishnet hosiery, sexy push up bras with a chemise or corset, beautiful satin blouses and short skirts to show off my legs, shiny patent heels either shoes or sometimes boots. I love the look of latex cat suits but do not own or wear one in bookings due to the very restrictive nature of working in one.