An insight to Mistress Tilly’s BDSM life

As I look back on my career as a professional dominatrix, I reflect on the many memories from my past which I now recognise as BDSM-related, but which at the time I had no idea what that [BDSM] was or that it even existed. The earliest memory dates back to when I was in junior school, I “adopted” one of my male classmates and walked him to his bus stop every afternoon after school. I would act like his mother insisting he held my hand and would spank his bottom when I considered he had stepped out of line (which was often!!) Both my ex-husbands labelled me a “bossy bitch” but I actually discovered the BDSM scene after my second marriage broke down. I worked as an escort to pay the bills, then one day a client turned up with a hair brush and asked me to spank him with it. I had so much fun I decided I needed more spanking in my life! From there I discovered the online community and it wasn’t long before I was venturing into real community events.

Since then things have progressed somewhat and I now work as an independent mistress and have my own purpose-built chambers in Stockport on the outskirts of Manchester. I do not work from any other chambers as I like to have all my own equipment to hand.

My chambers are large and well-equipped to cover most fetishes. I have a spacious dungeon area, a medical room with an anaesthetic machine for delivering nitrous gas sessions, a domestic service area and a TV/TG dressing room. I also have plans to build an isolation room in the near future.

All my equipment is carefully chosen to do what I want it to do so each piece is my favourite for what it was designed to do. Although I do secretly like to stroke my spanking bench as I walk past it!

When I’m in a session I am usually totally absorbed in what I am doing and producing an enjoyable experience for both myself and my client. I am always aware that although I am in control and enjoying myself, the client has paid over his hard-earned cash and deserves some enjoyment too.

I don’t compare myself to other mistresses, I am who I am, I like what I like and I do what I do my way.

I have many physical means of controlling a submissive but for me the most satisfying means is mental control. I like to get into a submissive’s mind. There is nothing quite so thrilling as someone giving up their control to me because they want to.

I couldn’t pick out one activity as a favourite, I love what I do and if I don’t love it, I don’t do it. CP appeals to my sadistic nature. I love caning, paddling and flogging and I love leaving my marks on skin. Breath control is another of my loves. To me this is the ultimate control, the choice of life or death!! Medical play, humiliation, feminisation, mummification, the list is endless.

I am often asked about safewords, I always give the option of a safeword during sessions, whether the client feels the need to use it or not is up to them. I feel that with good communication before the session starts and honesty about hard and soft limits a client shouldn’t feel the need to use their safeword.

When it comes to attire, I like to be comfortable with what I’m wearing as then I can give 100% concentration on what I am doing. I do have a penchant for wearing cardigans which doesn’t sound at all sexy does it? However, I like to think I pull it off with my own style and panache.

Naughty slaves must be punished according to what they have done wrong. I am a firm believer in the punishment fitting the crime but I think good communication can prevent a lot of naughtiness, unless of course they are brats by nature when naughtiness is part of their charm.

What annoys me intensely is time wasters and people who call me continuously to ask questions with no intention of ever booking an appointment. Then I simply refuse to take their calls.

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